What does side mean in gay

Discover the rise of the "side" as an LGBTQ+ sexual role—challenging traditional top/bottom binaries. Plus, learn what it means to be one.

What Does “Side” Mean? The term “side” is newer and less well-known. In the context of sexual intercourse, it refers to a person who does not want to engage in anal sex at all. Instead, sides may enjoy other forms of sexual expression and intimacy, such as oral sex, mutual masturbation, kissing, and cuddling. Non-Penetrative Intimacy.